Do my co-workers really like me or not?

I recently started a new position and I really like it. I finally feel like I'm in a good place that I've wanted to be in for a long time & I've honestly gotten along so well with my co-workers during the training process. However, I notice that when two of my co-workers I like are together they seem to almost pick on me or say flippant comments that are kind of rude. When the two of them are together, I immediately become uneasy because I notice both of their energies/vibes change and I feel kind of "kicked out." Yet, when they are both one-on-one with me I notice the pass of conversation seems to be much, much easier. This sounds really high school, but we are all adults....I know this can still happen into old(er) age. For instance, today one of them told me "I almost forgot your name!!" (haha...) and just last week one of them said "I forgot you were here!" (that's hilarious). But when I'm one-on-one with them they are laughing, joking, kind as can be.

I also will be working on something with them, laughing, having a good time and they will both leave for lunch and not invite me, even though i'm sitting right there. I've tried going down the path of "maybe i need to be more involved or friendly or take initiative" but I'm not really sure that's the case here. Not every crappy situation is caused by yourself or your lack of awareness. And not to toot my own horn, but I've done a lot of self reflection over many years dealing with my own anxiety/depression that sometimes I can call bluff when I see it.

I want to like these people. I have to work closely with them every single day and sit literally just a couple feet away from all of them. While it's just a job, most of our lives are our work. They impact my day to day. I guess I'm trying to ask how do you navigate this? Has anyone ever dealt with something like this?

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