hi, everyone. i’ll try to keep this as succinct as possible.
i’m almost 24 (F). i have loving parents who pay for my everything and always have, but i want to become independent and move out soon. because i’m so dependent they have rules and expectations (not allowed to date, for example, among others) that i think impede my growth and freedom as an adult that’s unhealthy for my age. never minding the rules, the dependence and delay in life experiences alone is unhealthy i think.
i graduated college in 2019 with a music performance degree. music was the most interesting thing for me to major in, the college was cheap and local and i got good scholarships there, i learned a lot, but because the degree was in classical singing and i’ve learned that my interests are in pop/contemporary singing, im training my voice in this style for my future career. however, covid has shut down performance opportunities whether pop or opera so it’s not possible to earn money from this right now anyway.
aside from one being retired and the other having another job, my parents have a fiction writing business and i help out a lot (edit all books, help with illustrations, etc.), but to be honest, we have yet to be profitable. also, for the past 8 months, i work online (about 5 hours a day) for minimum wage pay as an ESL tutor, just to earn some money during covid.
that’s the background. my question.
i’m considering creating my own business (most likely non music related because training and networking will take years before becoming profitable) since i have time and a great safety net to do this, and hopefully it can become my reliable income by time i move out (which i’d like to do in 1.5 years in the latest).
but, i don’t have any strong ideas what the business could be. i always imagined this business being my income while i travel and slowly develop my music career on the side, and my parents have always encouraged entrepreneurship, but i’m so stuck right now.
i could stay at home and keep working for my family business, but who knows how long that will take for it to be profitable, and that would also delay my adult independence. it would have to be staying at home because my parents aren’t comfortable with sending manuscripts through email for editing (possibility of someone else stealing or seeing their work before released), so i would actually have to stay home.
and i could also get a full time job, or waitress or something, but yet my parents are highly concerned about covid and wouldn’t let me get an in person job right now, and i wonder if finding a remote one would be difficult. the car i drive is also their car, technically, so they have ultimate say over this. furthermore, if i have time to create a business i’d like to take that chance instead, but again, i’m stuck at what to do.
not to mention that everyone says “travel when you’re young”, which i plan on doing 100% financially funded by me, but i feel like i’m both stuck in this current predicament and also losing years to do this young traveling.
any advice for my situation would be very much appreciated.
TL;DR -- I've depended on my parents for my entire life and now need to be independent. Stuck between creating my own business, getting a job, or staying and working for the family business.
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