I need some advice because quite honestly I’m tired of being polite.
Here is the situation: I left my old job that I worked at for 5 years last spring (2018). I was very unhappy, severely depressed, underpaid and burnt out. For a little bit of background on the company, I could best describe it as a “good old boys club”. I’m a woman (age 27, don’t know if that matters but probably) and it was severely off putting and demoralizing in a lot of ways. It was a very very toxic company culture and I was glad to get out of it. I think it’s also important to note that it was a small company (under 100 employees) and I worked with the presidents of the company daily. When I quit, I went to a competitor, which as you can imagine, my old employer was not happy about and really tried to get me to stay.
Flash forward to now and I’m incredibly happy where I’m at. I love what I’m doing, I feel valued, and most important to me, I have a wonderful work life balance. I’ve been at my current job for about 9 months now.
Here is the issue, my old boss and a few other managers I worked closely with from my former employer probably contact me once to twice a month with job offers and asking me if I want to come back and trying to offer me more money. I have politely turned them down each time. Today I was just told by one of the admin managers I use to work with that the president of my former employer is going to reach out to me. She told me this via text, I think it’s important to note that this is how most of the “offers” have been communicated to me. Quite frankly I’m tired of this. And I’m tired of telling my friends and family about this because they keep telling me I should be flattered. At first, yes, it was flattering that they missed me and they realized I did a good job. But now it’s coming off as needy, suffocating, and unprofessional. I’m done with that old job and I really don’t want to go back because I doubt the culture has changed. I guess my question is what would you do in this situation? Should I pick up the phone and listen one more time? Should I ignore it at the “risk” of “burning a bridge”? I’ve even joked that I should block their phone numbers but at this rate now I’m not thinking that’s such a crazy idea. Has anyone else been in this type of situation? Should I continue being “flattered”? I’m just not sure.
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