should i contact hr or will i sound like a drama queen

Ive applied to that job a month ago and for the last three weeks my online status says 'interview 1st'. none has called me.

should i find the recruiter on linkedin (i dont have a group email address) and message them? i really want the job. it means a lot to me. if i dont get it, ill need to move to another country for work.(again) its THAT serious.

im having second thoughts as to why the status is as it is. maybe the recruiter forgot to reject me? should i wait?

what could sound sensible in this case?

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