I worked in a job which was a small independent company. My boss was the highest person, this was not corporate so if I had issues with the boss I couldn’t go higher within the company. My head of department hated me. She was very chummy with my boss and would often twist things about me to my boss. If me and my head of department (I will call her Abby) ever had run ins with each other she would make a direct line to my boss and tell the story before I even got the chance. Most of the time I would leave the issue well alone but Abby would make it a big issue to my boss and I would get pulled in the office. I would get pulled up on things other staff never got pulled up on. Abby would give me attitude and speak down to me like I was a child, and then if I confronted her about it telling her I didn’t wish to be spoken down to, she would make me feel terrible for voicing how I felt. I am a direct person and I say what I mean within reason. I then would bring the issues up with Abby directly about how she treated me regularly (which was awful and I would often be left crying in the bathroom) and she would disregard how I felt. So I then would go to my boss because I felt I was treated unfairly and being spoken to incredibly rudely and Abby wouldn’t listen to me. Turns out Abby would already have gone to boss and told them a twisted version of what happened. I would then get berated by Abby for not bringing up the issue with her, when I have tried and it either got rejected or she literally didn’t care. 4 other staff members before me left this job because of Abby and how she treated others. Nearly every member of staff has been made to feel terrible because of her. The team was small. About 20 in total of this job and every time Abby would twist and manipulate situations and without fail every time make me like I was the terrible person. I spoke to past members of staff and they all agreed that she was like this. She seemed to however have it in for me particularly bad. I would always speak to her with respect despite her not respecting me. Since the team was small this job had a bit more of a family atmosphere. However we all always remembered we were colleagues. Abby would gaslight me and then herself into the victim all the time and would twist and manipulate situations or just flat out lie to me in front of my boss. To which she would then say when I said something wasn’t true, ‘so you’re calling me a liar?’ How can I say yes Abby you’re a liar in front of her and my boss? There was no CCTV to prove this, I did have witnesses at work of some situations but nobody was allowed to come into that office with me. I was made to be a liar and a problem the entire time I was at that job, when I know I was not. It was like being in an emotionally abusive relationship with a superior. This Abby was also untouchable and boss would beleive everything she said and ignored me and past colleagues of the hell she put us all through I’m just looking for advice and want to know. what others have experienced/deal with and how you are dealing with this. :)
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