Hi reddit,
Tl;dr My roommate set me up with a businessman who was supposed to help me get a job. I met with him. He grabbed my ass. I think my roommate expects me to sleep with him and I don't want to piss her off or she may make me move at the end of the month.
I recently moved cities and have been looking for a job with little luck. Last week I landed a temporary part time job to tide me over but I still need a second or even third job to afford rent and to save up for college. My roommate is a professional woman with a very good job. She gave me the phone number of her friend who is a very successful businessman in this city with a lot of friends who own businesses. He called me this morning and asked to meet over lunch to discuss jobs I would be interested in. We met at a restaurant close to where I live. Everything seemed to be going well. Some of his friends own restaurants and he said they might be looking for waitresses. After lunch he offered to drive me home (about 3 minute drive) because it was raining. I accepted. When we got close to my apartment he asked if he could use my restroom. I agreed and we went into my apartment. Once inside he said something along the lines of "let me help you with your dresser." Which I assumed meant that he was willing to pick up the dresser I had bought from craigslist in his truck. I agreed and he pulled out a wad of $100 bills and handed me 2. I immediately realized the misunderstanding and tried to give the money back. He insisted that I keep it and gave me a hug. He kissed me on the cheek and made a move to kiss me on the mouth. I pushed away and just stood there hoping he would leave. He didn't and over the course of a few minutes hugged me several more times, pushing his crotch against me and resting his hands on my butt. I pulled away repeatedly but I didn't want to be rude. I asked him, "What do I have to do for this money?" He said, "Nothing." Eventually he left and as he was leaving told me not to tell my roommate. I agreed and locked the door behind him.
Last night my roommate had told me that I have to follow through with meeting him and show him that I really want the jobs. I assured her that I would follow through. At the time I thought she was just still annoyed at the last person she introduced to him who apparently didn't show up to their second meeting. I now think that she expects me to sleep with this man to get a job. I'm subletting this apartment and it is the only one close to my job for less than $1000/mo. I just moved in and I really don't want to have to move again. I'm afraid of being kicked out of the apartment after the current lease ends at the end of the month.
Is there a professional way to deal with this situation? I'm afraid that if I don't sleep with him he may make it impossible for me to get a job here.
Edit: I spoke to my roommate when she got home. She believed me but she was shocked that he treated me like this. She and I spoke about it for a few minutes and she says she doesn’t know how to respond and whether she should confront him or avoid him.
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