TLDR; Lady at work is slandering me and making me look bad and I don’t know how to properly handle this.
I work for a small family business/office job. The family that owns it still has a hand in it and the daughters come and work in the office and I have to send my work to the owner for pricing.
Anyways to the point. There is a front desk lady who is obese and has problems of her own. I’ll come back on break and I can just tell by the thickness in the air that they just talked shit about me. I’ll come back from break and make my coffee and they’ll kick back jokes and laugh to each other. I’ll pretend not to understand what’s going on so that they stop but I’m very well aware of energies in the room.
This lady without a doubt has slandered me behind my back. The family used to love and adore me and then I get back from lunch one day and boom, that same nasty hostile energy. And all the women at work are disgusted/ afraid of me now. It hurts my heart that this happened. I just wish they took time to know me before they let someone else form an opinion of me.
If it was just a few women at work I think I could brush it off, but this is the family I work for. I have dirt on the fat front desk lady but I don’t want to play that game because that is too low for me. I want to come to work and do my job and say hello to everyone and not have to worry about who’s saying what about me, especially when opinions are being formed.
What bothers me most about this whole deal is the fact that I’m even bothered. If I could get one of the daughters to listen to me and I told them everything this lady has said about them she would be in the hot seat not me. But like I said I don’t want to do that.
What is the most mature and professional way I can handle this where I look like the good guy?
Btw I’m 22 and this lady causing me problems is 38.
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